I'm not telling you how to live your life but trust me when I tell you that you WILL become an outcast if you share your heartfelt admiration for the "Let's Hear It For the Boy" scene in Footloose.
If you do not heed this warning and one day the conversation drifts toward the subject of John Lithgow or proms in barns or Kevin Bacon's hair and you blurt out Oh! That scene on the football field when Chris Penn is learning how to dance! I just love that scene!---if you say this IN YOUR OUT LOUD VOICE, there will be a price to pay.
Which brings me to my point and my conclusion:
IN ORDER TO CARRY OUT YOUR MISSION THERE WILL BE TIMES WHEN YOU AND ONLY YOU WILL KNOW YOUR SECRET IDENTITY AND YOU MUST NEVER REVEAL THIS TO ANYONE. EVER.